Saturday, December 6, 2014

Goodbye For A While

Judging from my low numbers of visitors and no comments being made, I'm going to close this blog down for awhile.  I regret that I haven't been able to make this interesting enough to build any sort of loyal fan base.  I will try again sometime in the future, probably not until after the holidays.

Have a wonderfully happy holiday season!

Thursday, December 4, 2014

"Should I Stay or Should I Go?"

I started off with my blogs for a couple of reasons.  One was because I wanted to get myself in the habit of writing.  I want to be able to do some serious writing at some point.  Unfortunately, it seems that I am so brain dead by the end of the work day, that I just can't come up with anything that profound or creative for my blogs.  So it seems that I have failed in that respect.  The other reason was I thought it might enable me to make some money.  I knew I would have to have advertisements added to be able to do that.  Unfortunately, not only am I brain dead by the end of the work day, but it seems that I am just physically unable to keep up with anything anymore.  So months and months have gone by, and I still have not made any type of move toward getting any ads up.  Plus it will cost me more than I have to get any ads added anyway.  So it seems that truly I am keeping up on my blogs for no good reason at all anymore.  I haven't really established any type of following, at least according to the stats provided with the blogs.  So I feel now that I am at a crossroads.  Do I bother to continue?  Does anyone care?  Judging from the stats, no one really does.  So there seems to be little point in my continuing with my blogs.  I am disappointed, but it seems silly to continue to invest so much time every day on something that no one really cares about.  So right now, I am leaning toward discontinuing my blogs.  We'll see how I feel tomorrow.

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

"I'm Going To Bed"

Okay I see two sides to this.  The guy knows what he wants to do and has already done all his stuff ahead of time.  Therefore he can just go to bed.  The girl sees many things that still need to be done, and may say she's going to bed, but she really isn't.  She shouldn't say she is going to bed until she's done with all that other stuff!  (Okay weak, I know, but trying to play devil's advocate here!)

I'm going to bed. The difference between wife and husband.

from:
https://www.pinterest.com/chicoulino/men-vs-women/

Sunday, November 30, 2014

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Do Women Need Bad Guys?

Okay is this really what is needed, women to "experience" a bad guy so she knows what a good guy really is?  Or is this license for bad guys to be bad, their rationalization and justification for being bad?  Please.  I think most women are intelligent enough to get when a man is good to her or bad to her.  I don't think you need to have the comparison to get that.  Am I wrong, ladies?  Please feel free to comment!


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from:
http://www.searchquotes.com/quotation/A_woman_never_forgets_the_men_she_could_have_had%3B_a_man,_the_women_he_couldn't/390/

Friday, November 21, 2014

Tired Of All The Sacrifices With No Gain?

Do you think this is true?  In some ways, I think it may be.  I know I personally feel like I give and give and give, and I feel I have nothing left in me.  But I don't really feel like that in any kind of personal relationship that I have, at least not with people who are closest with me.  The exception would be this one creepy girl at work who is only out to shine a light on herself.  But that's another story.  I feel that the relationships in which I am giving my all for the other person, generally I am getting at least something back, if not half, if not more.  I think for me it is more my life in general, it's my status (or lack there of) that is what is impacting me.  I work my tail off, I always have.  You work, and you work, and you work, and yet you get further and further behind.  So in that way, I feel like I give my all and get nothing in return.  But I'm not sure I have that same feeling about my personal relationships.  What about you?  Have you experienced this?  Does it seem dependent on gender, or are we pretty equal in that department, as the quote indicates?  I'd love to hear what you think!



from:
http://www.pinterest.com/jackshadowfrost/i-just-cant-anymore/

Thursday, November 20, 2014

Can You Cope?

Okay, what do you think of this quote?  Do you agree?  Disagree?  I was never a huge Willard Scott fan.  It's nothing personal, I just think his enthusiasm rubbed me the wrong way and came across as phony to me.  But he was always nice with the centenarians.

So what do you think?  Can women cope better than men or vice verse?  Does it depend on the situation, and if so, do you have particular situations in mind?  I'd love to hear what you think!




from:
http://meetville.com/quotes/tag/men/page140

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Oscar Wilde's View on Gender Differences

What do you think about this quote?  I don't think it is accurate.  I've seen instances of both by either gender.  Perhaps it is an outdated quote.  What do you think?



from:
http://www.quotesvalley.com/images/32/women-are-never-disarmed-by-compliments-men-always-are-that-is-the-difference-between-the-sexes-3.jpg

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Are You Sick?

I think I may have posted this one before.  What do you think?  Are women better at handling being sick than men?  Are men babies about being sick?  I've heard that many times before.  I know some men who are babies, but some who are not.  I know some women who are babies about it, too.  What do you think?


from:
http://martinfamilymoments.blogspot.com/2013/09/7-qt-fall-baking-bracelet-making-gender.html

Friday, November 7, 2014

Love and Gender

I agree that women seem to love with everything they are, at least that is what I have witnessed in my life.  But I think this is not giving men enough credit at all.  What do you think?




from:
http://quotes.lifehack.org/quote/oscar-wilde/i-see-when-men-love-women-they/

Thursday, November 6, 2014

The Importance of Age and Birthdays

I know men who will kill you if you forget their birthdays, but I don't think I know any who are too sensitive about you asking their age.  What do you think?



from:
http://www.pinterest.com/minimimi18/growing-old-gracefully/

Monday, November 3, 2014

Are Independent Women Attractive?

Are independent women more attractive to a man that women who are not?  Guys, please feel free to chime in here.  What kind of woman do you find attractive?




from:
http://www.pinterest.com/explore/quotes-about-goals/

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Don't Be Disappointed

I guess we all need to be more flexible and understanding when it comes to the other.

Woman Marry Men Hoping They Will Change

from:
http://www.quoteswave.com/picture-quotes/155380

Saturday, November 1, 2014

Do Women Suffer From Chronic Pain More Than Men?

Yes, but aren't women more likely to admit they feel pain than men?  Don't men tend to keep it to themselves?  They don't want to appear weak or otherwise inadequate.  Doesn't that go against everything that men are told they are supposed to be?

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from:
http://www.medscape.org/viewarticle/521494_2

Sunday, October 26, 2014

"Two Different Tween Worlds"

Some interesting differences pointed out between girls and boys in the "tween" years (8-12).  I question the validity of the statements of boys being so binary.  While they do seem to answer questions only "yes" or "no", I have found that even this age group and even this gender is well able to multitask.  I believe the multitasking ability in the younger generations is incredible.

Do you agree or disagree with my thoughts on this, or with the posted article?  I'd love to hear your thoughts!  Please feel free to comment!


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from:
http://danpankraz.wordpress.com/tag/kids/

BOYS vs GIRLS: the gender differences of #inbeTWEENers

Saturday, October 25, 2014

Friday, October 24, 2014

"So Much Going On"

So sorry.  I didn't get home until 9:30 and I didn't eat dinner until after midnight.  I'll try to get something better up here over the weekend.  Have a great one!


"Sometimes I have so much going on inside my head that I have no room left for words." #introvert

from:
http://www.pinterest.com/pin/475411304385424618/

Saturday, October 18, 2014

Maybe Women Are More Shallow Than We Thought



Women prefer good-looking men to high-earning men.


Women prefer physically attractive men to high-earning men:
For women, a man's attractiveness has a 0.46 correlation with relationship initiation, while a man's earning power has only a 0.16 correlation. For men, a woman's attractiveness has a 0.43 correlation with relationship initiation, while a woman's earning power has a correlation of 0.19.
When male geeks talk about what (heterosexual) women want in men, they typically assert that women evolved to be attracted to a man’s resources, while men evolved to be attracted to a woman’s physical attractiveness. (Sometimes, this evolutionary psychology argument is used to justify the gender gap in earnings; they argue that men earn more than women because men’s evolutionary fitness depends on earning money, while women’s evolutionary fitness allegedly does not.) Such male IT geeks then complain that their difficulty attracting women must because they are “low status” males who do not make enough money, even when IT is a lucrative industry.
In reality, however, what women and men look for in a partner are pretty much the same. Perhaps those male IT geeks whofalsely believe that women are attracted to “alpha male” jerks should work on their physical appearance and personality.

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Friday, October 17, 2014

Men vs Women: Brain Connectivity

This is fascinating.  I wonder why a difference in gender would lead to a consistent difference in brain connectivity (or vice verse).   It certainly also helps to explain why men and women seem to be so different in so many things.  I would like to also see a similar study conducted on homosexual individuals.  Does the difference in connectivity have to do with the biological, physical differences between genders regardless of sexual orientation?  Or is there an emotional and/or psychological component to this?  What do you think?




from:
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/the-hardwired-difference-between-male-and-female-brains-could-explain-why-men-are-better-at-map-reading-8978248.html

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

A More Contemporary Interpretation

Here's an interesting interpretation of various gender continuums by Sam Killermann.  He's apparently even written a book about this.  Perhaps this is the mark of contemporary gender roles.  What do you think?






from:
http://itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/2013/01/a-comprehensive-list-of-lgbtq-term-definitions/

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Men vs Women: Childcare

Technically this is about men vs women in households where the woman is the breadwinner.  But in spite of being the breadwinner, it appears that women still tend to do more of the childcare than the men in the family.  It would be interesting to compare this to families in which the male is the breadwinner, where we assume the women do much more of the childcare than the men.  How does it work in your family?  My mother always worked, as did my father.  And certainly my mother did all the childcare.  Although that was a different generation.  Certainly today men are more likely to be involved in the childcare than men of previous generations.  And it seems like you have a lot of dual-earning families these days, much more so than before.  It would be interesting to see how the percentages below would change if you threw in statistics about daycare-type situations.


Chart: Who does most of the childcare duties?

from:
http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2012/09/breadwinner_wives_when_the_women_make_more_money_who_holds_the_power_.2.html