Sunday, August 31, 2014

Gender Differences in Loneliness

I found this interesting.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3794995

J Pers Soc Psychol. 1986 Nov;51(5):1069-74.

Gender differences in predicting loneliness from social network characteristics.

Stokes J, Levin I.

Abstract

In two studies we examined gender differences in predicting loneliness from measures of social network structure and a measure of perceived social support. The results showed that social network characteristics, especially density, were consistently better predictors of perceived loneliness for men than for women. Study 1 used the traditional measure of network density in which the number of relationships among network members was determined. Study 2 used a newly developed index of density that assessed the extent of closeness of relationships between pairs of network members. Uniformly, male subjects with more highly interconnected, cohesive sets of friends reported themselves to be less lonely, whereas density had little relation to loneliness in female subjects. These results are discussed as possibly indicating that men and women use different standards in evaluating whether they are lonely. It is suggested that men may use more group-oriented criteria in evaluating loneliness, whereas women focus more on the qualities of dyadic relationships.

Saturday, August 30, 2014

Working Out

Is there a gender-based difference when it comes to working out?  Guys like to pump iron and admire themselves in the mirror as they do it.  Gals like to do classes and like to workout in groups.  Okay, maybe that is a stereotypical assessment of the differences.  Certainly I have seen women working out alone and pumping iron to rival a man.  Certainly I have seen men in classes.  I've seen both genders watching themselves in the mirror and both running away from the mirror.  So I guess it's hard to say for sure.  I know I like to workout alone and I avoid the mirrors as much as possible.  I'm not big into classes.  I don't like to sweat, but certainly I do sweat.  I've seen plenty of sweat with both genders.  And while I think many individuals work out so they can look better, I do think many of us work out to stay healthy.  I know I'm only going to look so good, probably never that good.  My drive is definitely being healthier.  What drives you to exercise?  It'd be interesting to hear if there are any gender differences with this.  Please feel free to chime in!


http://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/features/his-hers-fitness

His and Hers Fitness

When it comes to working out, men and women are from different planets
By 
WebMD Weight Loss Clinic-Feature

His idea of getting in shape is pumping iron -- the more, the better. She'd rather pull out the yoga mat.
Whose idea of fitness is better?
The experts say there's no one-size-fits-all answer, but each sex could learn something from the other.

Vive La Difference

Motivation, the experts say, is one major fitness difference between the sexes.
Often, "men work out because they like to be bigger," says Vincent Perez, PT, director of sports therapy at Columbia University Medical Center Eastside in New York. "Pecs, biceps, quads ? men are after bulk."
"Guys have an agenda," adds Pamela Peeke, MD, author of Body-for-LIFE for Women: A Woman's Plan for Physical and Mental Transformation."They have a specific goal, and there's always a number involved." She calls this the "Home Depot" approach to working out: "They have a blueprint and they just want to get it done."
For many men, "working out is a sport, and they do it because it's fun, it's competitive, and it's something that they've always done," says Lori Incledon, author of Strength Training for Women. "For women, fitness is a superficial issue. They do it because it will help them look better."
Men like to look like they've been working out, says Peeke, "the sweatier the better. When was the last time you heard a woman say she wanted to sweat?"
Often, she says, "women think everyone else is looking at them so they're afraid to put on workout clothes or get out there in public with their cellulite jiggling. Do men care what they look like when they're working out? Of course not!"
One thing men and women have in common, according to Incledon: They tend to overlook the health benefits of exercise.
"Very rarely does anyone think about fitness like they should, which is just to stay healthy," says Incledon.

Mars vs. Venus Workouts

Once they get past their initial reluctance, women tend to have a balanced approach to fitness, says Perez. Their workouts are more likely to include a mix of cardio, strength training, and mind-body practices such as yoga or tai chi.
They're also more likely to seek advice, he says, whether from a personal trainer or by enrolling in group classes.
"As a man, I hate to say this, but women take instruction better," says Perez. "Men are afraid of making a fool of themselves."
"Most men prefer athletic-based activities that don't require dance or overt coordination," agrees Grace De Simone, a spokesperson for Gold's Gym International. "They prefer activities that they can call on from their past, like sports. Women enjoy dance-based activities with toning and flexibility."
Women may be more apt to take part in group activities because they're interested in the social aspects of working out and because they feel more comfortable in a gym when they're with other people, says Cedric Bryant, PhD, chief exercise physiologist for the American Council on Exercise.


Thursday, August 28, 2014

Father/Daughter and Mother/Son

My mother and I were talking today about the typical and strong bond between fathers and daughters and between mothers and sons.  This is not at all to say that mothers don't adore their daughters or that fathers are not bonded with their sons.  But there is something uncanny about this tendency, and it seems to exist fairly universally  (at least in our culture).  I've seen it many, many times.  Way more often than not, there seems to be some sort of extra special connection between a parent of one gender and a child of the opposite gender.  It makes me wonder about how this works (or does not work) in families with homosexual parents.  Of the parents and children that I have witnessed over the years and seen this bond in practice, I have no idea which involved homosexuals and which involved heterosexual ones.  They seemed to all be heterosexual since the parenting couple were of opposite genders.  So assuming they were all likely heterosexual couples, I have no information on how this would work with homosexual couples.  But I do wonder how that might work.  Would there be a special bond between same gendered children?  It seems more likely that there would be.  I have not heard of such a study being done, but I do think it would be interesting to see.  If there is a special bond between homosexual parents and their same gendered child, it would seem that the bonding is a function of the gender.  The more I think about it, the more interesting this becomes.

Has anyone out there had any experience with homosexual couples and their interactions with their children of both genders?  I would be very interested in hearing about it and seeing if we can figure out what happens and how this works, or if it exists at all for homosexual couples.  I invite any serious comments on this!  Thank you!

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

"Why Do Many "Breaking Bad" Fans Love Walter White But Hate Skyler?"

Okay, I'll tell you why I don't like Skyler.  She's a pushy, controlling, manipulative bitch, plain and simple.  I really don't believe I feel that way because she is a strong woman.  I have known strong women in my life, and I do not have a static response to them where I automatically think of them in such a negative light.  In fact, there are many strong women I know, and for many of them I have developed a strong sense of respect.  But Skyler?  She was pushy and controlling from the beginning, and as things went along, she became increasingly so.

And yeah, Walter is awesome, in spite of making some absolutely horrible decisions and for getting involved in such a horrible situation in the first place.  I do find it upsetting that I find myself always backing Walt, even though he's involved in such terrible things.  But there is just something about that guy.  He is the ultimate anti-hero for sure.

Why Do Many "Breaking Bad" Fans Love Walter White But Hate Skyler?




...

Though he's the classic example of an anti-hero, Walt initially entered the ever-thrilling field of meth production in a desperate effort to provide economic security for his wife, Skyler, son, and daughter-to-be. That noble goal is lost, as he spirals into violence and his "bullshit rationales." Despite his corrupt moral compass, viewers continue to root for Walt and there's a latent feeling that the audience will revolt if he doesn't survive the show's finale. Meanwhile, among many "Breaking Bad" fans, there's no love lost (to put it mildly) for his wife Skyler. Actress Anna Gunn even wrote an op-ed in the New York Times recently talking about the hatred of her character.
"My character, to judge from the popularity of Web sites and Facebook pages devoted to hating her, has become a flash point for many people's feelings about strong, nonsubmissive, ill-treated women," writes Gunn
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Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Multitasking: Function of Gender or of Age?

I have seen comments like this before as I've browsed the internet for gender-related stories to talk about for this blog.  I find this one to be a little hard to swallow, sometimes.  If you think about it, generally women are the caregivers at home, though it seems that this is leveling out a bit as we progress through this century.  But assuming they are generally the caregivers at home, it would seem to follow that they would be better at multitasking.  Taking care of children and a household does provide a high level of flexible multitasking, and that seems to increase exponentially as the number of kids increases, I'm sure.  So perhaps that has given women the edge in this ability.  It will be interesting to see what happens over time with this sort of thing.  It seems that more and more males are becoming the family caregiver, if the responsibilities are not shared by both genders in the family unit.  So probably over time the genders will equalize in the ability to multitask.

The way in which I feel this discrepancy is hard to swallow is in the area of technology.  That seems to me to be more a function of age than of gender.  The younger generations seem to be hardwired to handle technology right out of the womb.  But older generations, mine included, just don't seem to have the same knack for technology that the younger ones do.  And there seems to be something innately multitasking in nature about technology these days.  We can do some much so quickly and sometimes even simultaneously.  Sometimes that's a lot for someone from the pencil and paper era to cope with!  It will be interesting to see how this changes and develops over time and advancement.  Stay tuned!  :)


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/29/women-better-than-men-multitasking-study-finds_n_4175470.html

Women Are Better Multitaskers Than Men, Study Finds

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